SWIZZ BEATZ WIFE’S LETTER TO ALICIA KEYS!!
Swizz Beatz’ estranged wife Mashonda is going public with her husband’s alleged affair with Alicia Keys. She hired high-powered attorney, Bernard Clair, to get her through what might be a messy divorce. We understand that times must be tough for her, particularly with everything that seems to be going on. We wish her the best, but at least Mashonda can know that she is not alone, as there are plenty of women who have to deal with messy divorces. Luckily, for them, they can get in touch with lawyers similar to these local family law solicitors, who might be able to help them through their divorce. Sometimes people just fall out of love and grow apart and although we would never wish it on anyone, this sort of thing just happens. Something we forget about divorce is that there are many parties involved and many people impacted by the result of two people who unfortunately have fallen out of love, or for other reasons have decided to separate; namely, the children of parents who have decided to split. It’s difficult for young children to understand the impact of the word divorce and what it means for their future. Fortunately, things like this Family Changes book aspire to help children through this tough time to understand how this is a necessary process, and how to handle the emotions involved.For people who are going through a similar situation to Mashanda (or are just going through a divorce that may or may not be messy), you should make sure you hire a lawyer that can help run things smoothly. If you don’t know who to use and would like some inspiration, then there are plenty of lawyers that you could pick from. If you are interested in finding out how lawyers work though then you should check out the “about us” page on a lawyer’s site. For example, if you are interested in using a law firm like Peters and May, then you can find more information on workflow rules on Peters And May crm’s help pages here. Sometimes it’s a good idea to see how they work and how much their clients appreciate them, as this way you can see if they would be a good fit for you. If you’re going through a divorce you may find that you need help, luckily there are some insurance companies, similar to Insurance Quotes that offer divorce insurance that could help those who need it, through such a tough time.
Getting back to Mashonda though and her messy divorce…
The R&B singer claims she is fed up with all of the disrepect. Mashonda has written an open letter to the Alicia in response this post on AK’s twitter account:
[“Having a heated debate n the studio. Question is…N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is ‘SMART’ or the choice that has ‘SPARK’??”]
MASHONDA’S LETTER
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
A friend of Swizz said, “His relationship with Alicia began after their separation. He hasn’t kept it a secret. He still has great love for Mashonda and has promised to take care of her and their son and support her career.”
Swizz Has something different to say:
“I can no longer ignore the harmful rumors, that my friend Alicia Keys is in any way linked to my marital circumstances or to the decision that [my wife] Mashonda and I have made to separate. I am disappointed that some have chosen to try and tarnish Alicia’s reputation by irresponsibly implicating her in a situation that she has absolutely nothing to do with,” Beatz, a father of two, says. “This experience has been one of the most difficult times in my life, and as was stated when we announced our separation several months ago, I ask that you continue to respect my privacy in dealing with this personal matter.”
We’re going to keep all the parties involved lifted up in our prayers. When it comes to Marriage & Showbiz…it’s complicated.
